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“Dear Tyler,Son, I miss you more than you could possibly fathom. Why?Your Dad,Serge. ”
1 of 100+ | Posted by: Serge von Duvillard - St. Cloud, MN

“Lighting a candle in memory of you from all the boys ”
2 of 100+ | Posted by: Fenn Parent

“My heart and prayers are with you always. ”
3 of 100+ | Posted by: Pamela Sullivan - Marshfield, MA

“Martha.. my brother Mark mentioned you to me, I was right across the street at 51 Walden the night of your Sons wake, I had no idea it was your Son...Read More »
4 of 100+ | Posted by: Arthur D. Magazu - Stow, MA

“I never knew you, but I remember you. ”
5 of 100+ | Posted by: Christian Krueger

“Hi Tyler, Thinking of you always, especially at night when it was our time. Kobie and Rondo still wonder where you are. They miss their nightly ...Read More »
6 of 100+ | Posted by: Marty Ryan - concord, MA - mother

“I never knew Tyler, maybe i even have no right to be saying any of this as a girl that found this over google and lives a million miles away, but he...Read More »
7 of 100+ | Posted by: Gaby - none

“We love you tyler! ”
8 of 100+ | Posted by: Unknown Unknown - Concord, MA

“I love you tyler ”
9 of 100+ | Posted by: chris - Brother

“Marty, Bill, Kendall and Chris: I am so sorry for your loss. Tyler and I weren't really close but I have so many wonderful memories of growing up...Read More »
10 of 100+ | Posted by: Hannah Ryde

“There but for the grace of god...I feel your sadness: know your grief...May you find peace...knowing you gave your best...beyond that you have no...Read More »
11 of 100+ | Posted by: A friend

“I meet tyler in wilderness, and knew right away I wanted to be his friend, When i knew tyler he was happy loving and fun to be around and those are...Read More »
12 of 100+ | Posted by: Lanie Miller - friend

“I am heartbroken to learn of Tyler's death and so sorry for your loss. He stands out as one of my favorite students I ever taught...a kind, caring...Read More »
13 of 100+ | Posted by: Hildi Arnold - Concord, MA

“I work in Concord and happened to be reading the paper and came across your loving son Tyler i don't even know him but it broke my heart. i lost my...Read More »
14 of 100+ | Posted by: Lorraine Magarian - Chelmsford, MA

“When Tyler went out of his way while he was a Punch Boy to help an injured kid to the nurse at Star Camp. He was my favorite counselor at camp. I'll...Read More »
15 of 100+ | Posted by: Jacob Rutstein - Concord, MA

“Martha I feel your sadness, I am one of the fortunate ones my daughter was not successful in her many attempts. I do not know if you remember me...Read More »
16 of 100+ | Posted by: A friend

“To the Ryan Family- I did not know your son, but I understand how you are all feeling at this moment. I went through the same experience last Fall...Read More »
17 of 100+ | Posted by: Sarah Bill - Rochester, MA

Tyler and Avatar Group.. Open Sky Wilderness “My son James shared so many experiences with Tyler at Open Sky Wilderness. They were so excited to share the honor of earning "North" and a compass....Read More »
18 of 100+ | Posted by: Barbara Zobian - New York, NY

“Dear Marty,We were deeply saddened to hear of the death of your son Tyler: such a great loss at such an early age.Our prayers are with you and your...Read More »
19 of 100+ | Posted by: Dana and Claire Abbott - AL

“Marty, Bill, Kendall and Chris, I am so sorry for your loss of such a wonderful young man. Listening to all of his friends speak yesterday just...Read More »
20 of 100+ | Posted by: Rachel Kahan (Wiesen)

“Tyler and I met years ago at Star Camps. Most counselors join Star Camps because they love sports- but quickly learn that the kids are what make it...Read More »
21 of 100+ | Posted by: Greg Roberts - Carlisle, MA

“A beautiful service today for a beautiful young man. We are so very sorry for the loss of Tyler, and will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers....Read More »
22 of 100+ | Posted by: Sarah Robart - Stow, MA

“Very sorry for the loss of Tyler. I did not know him. But he was a classmate of my nephew. It is so sad to try and understand why someone would take...Read More »
23 of 100+ | Posted by: Steven Brown

“Grace...feel it in the thoughts and prayers of others. Grace...let it hold you and comfort you at this sad time. All your friends are here for you....Read More »
24 of 100+ | Posted by: Amy Phelps - Sudbury, MA

“Dear Marty and family- I'm at a loss for words- I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Of the few times I met and sat next to Tyler at the Celtics, he...Read More »
25 of 100+ | Posted by: Elizabeth Monaco - Millbury, MA

“Dear Marty, Bill, Chris and Kendall- I am deeply sorry for your loss- He was a great kid and I enjoyed many nights sitting next to him at the Celtics...Read More »
26 of 100+ | Posted by: Paul Monaco - Woodstock, CT

“I'll never forget the phone call and sound of pain from my daughter Amanda when she called to tell me " was Kendall's brother Tyler!" We cried...Read More »
27 of 100+ | Posted by: elizabeth seiss - Concord, MA

“I just want to let you know that I've been through a similar situation. I feel the numbness that you're feeling. I didn't know Tyler, however I feel...Read More »
28 of 100+ | Posted by: A friend

“Marty, I am praying for you and your family and grieving with you over the loss of your beautiful Tyler. I know your other Beede Center buddies are...Read More »
29 of 100+ | Posted by: Christine J Banfield - Friend

“Ryan Family, My heart aches for you at this time. Tyler touched both of my sons lives Jaron and Ronald Hargrove with his caring nature and just by...Read More »
30 of 100+ | Posted by: Shy Royal - West Roxbury, MA

“May you sense that our big God is holding every tear and every pain for each of you. In Him.... Wendy of Framingham ”
31 of 100+ | Posted by: Wendy - Know Mom, Marty

“Tyler was a beacon of light and could make anyone smile. He was a familiar voice to hear, and is a wonderful memory to share. I believe that everyone...Read More »
32 of 100+ | Posted by: Lauren Treitman - Concord

“Dear Ryan Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this most difficult time. The Westford Academy School Community ”
33 of 100+ | Posted by: James Antonelli - Westford, MA

“Marty, There are not enough words to tell you how sad I am to hear about Tyler. He was one of the most polite and caring children I knew at Alcott....Read More »
34 of 100+ | Posted by: A friend

“Ryan Family, My heart aches for you at this time. Tyler touched both of my sons lives Jaron and Ronald Hargrove with his caring nature and just by...Read More »
35 of 100+ | Posted by: A friend

“Martha, I'm very sorry about your loss. My deepest sympathy to you and your family during this difficult time. Karla tells me he was a wonderful...Read More »
36 of 100+ | Posted by: A friend

“Our daughter, Paige, knew Tyler at Middlesex and they were in a couple of classes together as new sophomores. She spoke very highly of him Vivi...Read More »
37 of 100+ | Posted by: Vivi Duke - Dedham, MA

“I hope only that these well wishes and prayers can take some of the pain that you carry on your shoulders to ease the heavy heart we all share for ...Read More »
38 of 100+ | Posted by: K. Rose O'Neill - Concord, MA

“Dear Marty, Bill, Chris and Kendall, Even as I look at the senior picture of Tyler, I see the five year old boy I taught at Milldam - friendly,...Read More »
39 of 100+ | Posted by: Alice Zamore - Concord, MA

“Tyler was one of the most optimistic, kind, and smart kids I've met at CCHS. He was in my math class as a freshman and his presence in that class...Read More »
40 of 100+ | Posted by: Bobby Davin - Carlisle, MA

“Tyler will always be remembered, even to those like me who barely knew him. I was in bookpals with Tyler. Laughter and light radiated around him. He...Read More »
41 of 100+ | Posted by: Caroline St. Francis - classmate

“Dear Marty, Bill, Chris, and Kendall, Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. We are sorry for your loss. Tyler was a wonderful young...Read More »
42 of 100+ | Posted by: Derek Boonisar - Concord, MA

“What a gorgeous boy! I lost one like him in l985 - he was 20. (motorcycle crash). Some day if you want any solace, (this takes time to wish for),...Read More »
43 of 100+ | Posted by: Dorothy Vollans - Siasconset, MA

“From Tri Con to Milldam to Alcott, Fenn and CCHS, we have traveled this parenting road by your side. It is with our deepest sympathies that we are...Read More »
44 of 100+ | Posted by: Sarah, Dru, Addie, Ellie, Ranger, Pierce & Henry Beguelin - MA

“Dear Marty - you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God send you the strength to bear this. Karen Ippolito ”
45 of 100+ | Posted by: Karen Ippolito - concord, MA

“I am sorry for your loss and can only imagine your pain. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. ”
46 of 100+ | Posted by: Tom O'Toole - Cataumet, MA

“Dear Ryan Family- We want to let you know that we share our heartfelt sympathy with you. Our prayers are with with you daily. The Ivas Familiy ”
47 of 100+ | Posted by: Donald, Nancy, James and Emily Ivas - MA

“Marty and Bill, I will always remember Tyler for his caring commitment to Fenn's Philanthropy Club. He genuinely cared for his community and helping...Read More »
48 of 100+ | Posted by: Jeri Goetz - Dedham, MA

“My thoughts and the thoughts of the rest of our family are with you at this time. If you would like a visit or to talk via phone or e-mail just let...Read More »
49 of 100+ | Posted by: Barbara Whitcomb

“Dear Marty and Family, My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very difficult time. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of precious Tyler....Read More »
50 of 100+ | Posted by: Jo Anne Kwarta - Wayland, MA

“I wish I had the right words; just know I care and that your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. ”
51 of 100+ | Posted by: Tonya Boyce - West Groton, MA

“It was the greatest honor of my experience at CCHS to meet Tyler Ryan. Over the past 5 months I've had the pleasure of getting know know Tyler...Read More »
52 of 100+ | Posted by: Michelle Schacker - Somerville, MA

“Dear Ryan family, I am so sorry to hear about Tyler. He was such a good kid, and I am glad I knew him. I am praying for you. Sincerely, Ben ”
53 of 100+ | Posted by: Ben Gallagher - Sherborn, MA

“Dear Marty, Bill, Chris, and Kendall--We are profoundly saddened by the untimely loss of Tyler. He was a remarkable, intelligent, caring, and...Read More »
54 of 100+ | Posted by: Anna, Neil, Anders and Autumn Rasmussen - MA

“Bill, Marti, Christopher and Kendall: May the loving and fun memories of Tyler bless you every day. May your hearts be filled with his blessing. I...Read More »
55 of 100+ | Posted by: Lisa Hines - Friend

“Dear Marty, Bill, Kendall and Chris, We knew Tyler as Kendall's big brother. His kindness and thoughtfulness made him such a special person that we...Read More »
56 of 100+ | Posted by: Cherie Langell - Friend

57 of 100+ | Posted by: Duffy family - Concord, MA

“"Even in our sleep, pain which we cannot forget, falls drop by drop, upon the heart, until in our despair, against our will, comes wisdom, through...Read More »
58 of 100+ | Posted by: Laura Gold - Newton, MA - friend

“Dear Marty, Your friends are sending you and your family peace, prayers, and love during this most difficult time. ”
59 of 100+ | Posted by: Daryl Lippman - Friend

“Dear Marty and family, I know there is nothing I can say or do that can ease your loss. I want you to know that Chris and I are grieving with you...Read More »
60 of 100+ | Posted by: Nancy and Chris Reilly - Concord, MA

“We are so very deeply saddened by your loss. Take comfort in all of your friends and their collective arms around you at this difficulty time. The...Read More »
61 of 100+ | Posted by: Lauren Huyett - Concord, MA

“May God receive him into his open arms. My prayers are with you at this terrible time.Sean (Concord) ”
62 of 100+ | Posted by: - concord, MA

“Marty, Bill, Kendall and Christopher,Words cannot express our deepest sympathy for all of you. Our prayers are with you all for through this...Read More »
63 of 100+ | Posted by: A friend

“Dear Marty, Bill, Chris, and Kendall--We are profoundly saddened by the untimely loss of Tyler. He was a remarkable, intelligent, caring, and...Read More »
64 of 100+ | Posted by: Anna, Neil, Anders, and Autumn Rasmussen - MA

“My complete condolences to the entire Ryan family. I love you all so much, and we all loved Ty. I will stop by the house the second I am home. I love...Read More »
65 of 100+ | Posted by: Kristina Gorman - Concord, MA

“Words cannot express our sadness and sorrow. We send peace, prayers and blessings to you. Tyler will be missed by everyone who knew him. Margie,...Read More »
66 of 100+ | Posted by: Margie, Daniel, Ben & Zachary Aghion - MA

“Dear Marty, Bill, Chris and Kendall, We hold you in our hearts during this tragic time. Reverend Lombard reminded us today, there are no answers,...Read More »
67 of 100+ | Posted by: Martha, Glenn, Stuart, Tyler, and Hannah Davis

“Dearest Marty, Bill, Chris, & Kendall - I am so deeply sorry and saddened by this tremendous loss not only for you, but for the entire community....Read More »
68 of 100+ | Posted by: Katey Lesneski

“Marty & family, We are deeply saddened by the loss of your son, Tyler. We hope the wonderful memories of him will bring you through this...Read More »
69 of 100+ | Posted by: Joan, Bret, Brita, & Bradley Bero

“Dear Marty, Bill, Christopher and Kendall, Our hearts go out to you at this time of tremendous sorrow. Know we have you in our hearts. ”
70 of 100+ | Posted by: Andrew, Abigail, Caroline and Dave Wester

“My heart goes out to you as you begin to navigate your lives with Tyler's memory, not his presence. Such a tremendous loss. I'm so sorry. ”
71 of 100+ | Posted by: Lisa Kynvi

“Marty, Our hearts go out to you and your family in this most difficult time. Know we are always there for you and don't hesitate to reach out if you...Read More »
72 of 100+ | Posted by: Dave (Wally) & Karen Wallace

“Dear Marty, Bill, Christopher and Kendall, Our family is deeply saddened by the loss of your Tyler. As a neighbor, friend, and classmate of our son...Read More »
73 of 100+ | Posted by: Dan, Hillary, David and Peter O'Connor - MA

“Tyler was such a positive force in my classroom, with lots of energy for study and for friends. He had a comfortable and jocular manner with me that...Read More »
74 of 100+ | Posted by: Lee Cooprider - Stow, MA

“I am so saddened by the loss of such a warm, bright and kind person. Tyler was a joy to have in class and he was always friendly and caring to those...Read More »
75 of 100+ | Posted by: Nora Mendoza - Spanish teacher

“Martha, Chris and family - We are so sad to hear of your loss. Tyler was a friendly and welcoming senior at Fenn when Garrett arrived as a "new boy"...Read More »
76 of 100+ | Posted by: Ann and Garrett Essman

“You are all in our thoughts and prayers. ”
77 of 100+ | Posted by: The Long Family - Karen, Paul, Andrew and Aidan

“I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss, may the love of your friends and family help you through the days ahead. ”
78 of 100+ | Posted by: Karin Cotter Imen - Friend

“Dear Marty, Bill, Christopher and Kendall, Tyler and our son Ryan were great friends throughout Fenn and beyond. They shared so many wonderful...Read More »
79 of 100+ | Posted by: Susan Peters and Patrick Cavanagh - VT

“Dear Martha, We are so very saddened to learn of the loss of your son, Tyler. We are holding you in our hearts and in our prayers. Please extend our...Read More »
80 of 100+ | Posted by: Patty Schofield - Newton, MA

“Dear Marty, Bill, Chris, and Kendall, I am very sorry to hear about tyler. I didn't know Tyler too well, but he was a very nice kid. I will never...Read More »
81 of 100+ | Posted by: Caroline Burlamachi - Concord, MA

“Marty, My heart aches for you and your family. prayers and love,Kim(Lincoln) ”
82 of 100+ | Posted by: Kim

“Dear Marty, Bill, Christopher and Kendall, We are so saddened by this news. Tyler was a special person, who always made everyone else feel special....Read More »
83 of 100+ | Posted by: Carol A. Kinlan - Cambridge, MA

“Dear Ellie, Words are of little help at a time like this, but Steve and I want to express our deepest sympathy on the death of your beloved grandson....Read More »
84 of 100+ | Posted by: Fran and Steve H onan - Concord, MI

“My heart goes out to the Ryan family and friends for this unimaginable tragic loss. I met your family several years ago when my son played baseball...Read More »
85 of 100+ | Posted by: Carolyn Hardy - Concord resident

“Marty, Bill, Kendall and Christopher. The miles may be far, but that will never take away the sadness for the loss of Tyler. He will forever be in...Read More »
86 of 100+ | Posted by: A friend

“Bill, Marty, Christopher and Kendall, My heart breaks with you over your loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you. May you be...Read More »
87 of 100+ | Posted by: Lisa Schuhmacher - Nashua, NH

“Chris and Kendall, Bill and Marty, I am so terribly sorry for your loss. He was a wonderful young man and Concord will not be the same without him. ”
88 of 100+ | Posted by: Caroline Padden - Bozeman, MT

“The Ryan family is in my thoughts and prayers constantly. I didn't know Tyler extremely well but the few times that I hung out with him left a huge...Read More »
89 of 100+ | Posted by: Alex Schurr - Friend

“I treasure all the moments of Tyler in my class this year. He was admired by all of the students for his enthusiasm, curiosity, and willingness to...Read More »
90 of 100+ | Posted by: Laura Rotondo

“Dear Bill, Marty and Boys, We are so sorry to hear of your loss, and our thoughts and prayers are with you. Our son Michael remembers playing...Read More »
91 of 100+ | Posted by: Joseph and Carol Lenox

“We are so, so sad over your tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. ”
92 of 100+ | Posted by: McNulty family - Fenn family

“Marty, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Love, Scott, Susan and Morgan ”
93 of 100+ | Posted by: Susan Jaferian Evans - Carlisle, MA

“Everyone misses you in concord. you lit up the town. We pray for you to rest in peace. you where a great student....everyone cares for you. Rest in...Read More »
94 of 100+ | Posted by: People of Willard elementary school - MA

“Everyone cares for you tyler....we canceled cchs sports teams practices just for you. I know life was hard for you....Rest in Peace. ”
95 of 100+ | Posted by: Jenia - Freind's friend

“I am so sorry for your loss. Tyler was an amazing young man who brought such joy and energy to English this semester. There is already a void in...Read More »
96 of 100+ | Posted by: Johnny Woodnal - Concord, MA

“So sorry for your loss, please know that you are in my thoughts. ”
97 of 100+ | Posted by: Sue Merlino - Concord Resident

“There are no words for our broken hearts. We love you all so much and will miss Tyler; his smile, generosity, quiet gift of friendship. Susan, Jack,...Read More »
98 of 100+ | Posted by: Susan Henderson - West Linn, OR

“Marty, Bill, Christopher, Kendall - I am so, so sorry. There can be no crueler loss than that which you are suffering. I have been praying for you...Read More »
99 of 100+ | Posted by: Judy Howe Tucker

“Tyler could always put a smile on my face whether I was crying, singing or sleeping. He told me to never stop believing it would end up okay. His...Read More »
100 of 100+ | Posted by: Emily Macaulay - Friend.

Tyler W. Ryan, age 18 of Concord, took his own life on Wednesday, April 28, 2010. He was the proud son of William J. and Martha H. (Stengel) Ryan and loving brother of Christopher B. and Kendall A. Ryan.

Born in Newton on September 18, 1991, Tyler graduated from The Fenn School in 2007. There he served as School President and was the recipient of The Faculty Prize. This award recognizes the student whose breadth, quality and consistency of involvement in the life of the school have best exemplified the faculty’s ideals for Fenn students.

Later he attended Concord-Carlisle High School where he was an excellent student as well as active in sports and activities including CCHS Football, Up and Out, and Book Pals.

Outside of school, he was a member in the Trinitarian Congregational Youth Group, and worked as a counselor at Star Camps. Tyler loved to travel abroad and was planning a service trip to Tanzania this summer.

When recently asked (in preparation of his up-coming college search) how he would describe himself, he said this:

"As an individual, I would categorize myself as a person with a natural lust for laughter, who enjoys the little things in people. I feel an obligation to help others...I work hard to get where I am in life, but I don't forget about the other guy. I love being surrounded by friends and I try to keep an open mind toward the day ahead."

Tyler touched many lives wherever he went. He could light up a room with his smile and his wonderful sense of humor, and had wisdom beyond his years for knowing the right thing to say. As a result, he had a large and loving circle of family and friends who will miss this bright, handsome and full-of-promise young man..

Besides his loving parents and siblings he is survived by his grandmother, Ellie K. (Browne) Stengel and his two uncles Rob and Brad Stengel and many caring and loving friends.

Monday - May 3, 2010 from 4:00 - 8:00 p.m.
Trinitarian Congregational Church
54 Walden St.
Concord, MA 01742

Tuesday. May 4 at 3:00 p.m.
Fenn School - Gymnasium
Boll Family Building
516 Monument St.,
Concord., MA 01742

Limited parking spaces will be available at the Fenn School.
Everyone is encouraged to park away from Fenn and take the pre-arranged shuttle buses provided by the Concord Transportation Department that will run continuously between Fenn and the shuttle locations prior to and following the service. Shuttles are expected to begin running so that first arrival at Fenn is between 2:15 and 2:30pm. If you plan to drive to Fenn, please car pool. Shuttle locations made available by the Concord Public Schools and Minuteman National Park are as follows:
CCHS - multiple buses
Concord Middle School - Sanborn Building
Alcott School
North Bridge Park Parking lot on Monument Street - AS DIRECTED, please park on grass across from the parking lot near the Old Manse

Sleepy Hollow Cemetery
Concord, Massachusetts

The Tyler Ryan Memorial Fund
c/o Middlesex Savings Bank
1208 Main St.
Concord, MA 01742

Arrangements under the care of Glenn D. Burlamachi
Concord, MA 01742

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